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writes:I went on a Tinder date today. Having been on a couple before that weren't brilliant, I was wary. However, this date seemed to go really well. We met for coffee, which he paid for and we chatted for a few hours. When we met he told me I looked great and made a couple of comments about having fun and enjoying himself. Neither of us realised we had been talking for so long and it wasn't awkward at all. He told me he had only expected the date to last about an hour. He gave me a lift home and thanked me for a nice time but didn't say anything about meeting again.Should I wait for him to message me or should I send him a message to thank him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (7 July 2015):
 I agree, a short - thanks for yesterday, I had a nice time.
Then no more. If he is interested, he knows how to get hold of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2015): If you want another date. say it and get a answer. and then just move on... dont get like oneitis " hes maybe mr right i dont wana be to keen or he will loose interest"its your market if you want it to be. empower yourselfadopt the mindset... I want something..I am going to take it.... its already mine!
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (6 July 2015):
I don't think there's anything wrong with sending him a message thanking him again and saying that you had really nice time. I think it's a polite thing to do.
But then leave it up to him to ask whether you want another date. Don't "chase" him.
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