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Should I wait for him to ask me to get married??

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Question - (9 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey everyone! well im 18 years old (19 in dec) i've beeen with my bf since i was 14 years old we have a 2 year old daughter! well we love eachother alot! and i mean alot! we cant be without eachother for so long we tell each other everything! there's nothing i don't tell him! this past couple of weeks we've been talkinq and everytime we talk about us or have sex we end up saying we want to be together for ever! this had never happen til like 3 or 4 weeks ago! well the thing is i want to get married with him! i never felt this feeling im feeling for getting married! before i didnt even pay attention to the marriage and all that! but now i do! i think he also wants to get married but i feel like he doesnt want to tell me i don't why! i want to tell him! but i don't know how to! any advice on how to deal with this or should i just wait til he asks me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

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well the thing is he's already been to collage i forgot to mention he's 23 he works in construction field. before like when he was young he would say he never wanted to get married! but 3 days ago i asked him about getting married about going to church and ask what we needed and all that and he didn't say anything then my daughter started crying so we didn't get back to the subject. i don't know why but i have a feeling inside me he does want to get married (:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

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well the thing is he's already been to collage i forgot to mention he's 23 he works in construction field. before like when he was young he would say he never wanted to get married! but 3 days ago i asked him about getting married about going to church and ask what we needed and all that and he didn't say anything then my daughter started crying so we didn't get back to the subject. i don't know why but i have a feeling inside me he does want to get married (:

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (9 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntSince you two have a daughter together I surprised no discussion of the future has come up, however you two are young so keep that in mind. Just casually bring up the subject, I would just ask him about his future, goals, college, what does he have in mind? See if marriage is on his mental list.

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