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Should I try to move on, or ask her to be my girlfriend again

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Question - (2 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *ak120 writes:

ok I was dating this girl for bout a week or two. Plus she listens to alot of people and sometimes even does wat they say. Then there is this other guy that likes her but she said she would never date him okay ill get along with the story. Okay she found out i liked her so she calls me to see if it's true. I say yes and then she said she likes me too. So we decide we should go out. After about a week and 3 days I decide that i should at least give her a little hug before class. I gave her a hug.

But then later that day she called me after school and sounded a bit down. She told me when i gave her a hug it felt a bit akward. and she said that the guy that liked her said maybe she should breakup with me and she called him an ass for saying that. But then after a while we started to talk like we usually did. But then the next day instead of calling me texted me saying that she was sorry but she wanted to be just friends. It's been about a month since all that and i can't get her outta my head.

But she still texts me and calls me a good amount like every other day. We still talk alot in school. and when I look over at her and she catches me she tries and looks me in the eye and smiles and even sometimes talks to me. But about 2 weeks ago i heard she liked someone else but then about a week ago she called me again and we talked like usual but then we started to talk bout this girl that moved away the other day.

Then she starting saying the people who were moving away after school is out and she said the guy she liked's name and she didn't sound mad or sad. But then i jokingly said that i was moving but i didn't say were and she flips out. But then i told her i'd probably be moving out towards her then she started to sound happy again.

I mean i Can't stop thinking about her. From what i've said if you can understand it. What should i do try to move on, ask her to be my girlfriend again, or something else? Thanks for all your answers.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (2 June 2008):

PeterPan agony auntPersonally, to me it seems like another window of opportunity has opened up for you. I think you should tread lightly on it, but move nonetheless. Approach this slowly and carefully -- don't scare her off. Do some more hinting... try a few "buddy" activities (movies, etc.) and see how that goes...

Good-luck!!

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