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Should I try something gay? I do have a girlfriend...

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Question - (27 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2011)
A male Australia age 30-35, *i-curious writes:

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I am having a big urge to have a gay sexual encounter. I have a girlfriend and she let's me watch gay porn nd gets turnd on by how I get turnd on so much by it. I've told her my fantasies and was a bit unsure about it but sed she didn't wanna stop me from what I want to experiment. I've had a couple experiences where I get aroused in the presence of naked men. I love my girlfriend alot but should I try something, anything gay....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011):

Dude go for it. I am straight and I don't get gay but do what you want. So many gays fight the impulse until they get married and have families and only then do they confront their sexuality. Find out now so you can take it or leave it.

The cobra

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (27 May 2011):

Tisha-1 agony auntIt sounds like you have good communication with your girlfriend. I think your best path would be to tell her that you are feeling very curious about your gay side and that you want to see what it is like to be with a man. She may want to take a break or split up while you explore that side of yourself, but at least you will have been honest with her and true to yourself.

Do not cheat on her by having sex with a man without her knowledge. There are diseases out there like HIV/AIDS and other STIs that you could transmit to her. That's not fair to her so don't go down that road.

Yes, it's a difficult thing to do but I think your best bet is to be honest with her. Give her the option to decide for herself what she wants to do while you explore your gay side.

Good luck and SAFE SEX, okay?

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