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writes: I suspect that my colleague is gay. I have worked with my colleague for several years and he has never mensioned or commented about being in a relationship or a women. He has recently mentioned he has a new partner. His sexuality is his business and to honest doesn't bother me other than the fact that I have started to question his relationship with a mutual person we know. There is this guy who works across the road for another company that I am interested in. This guy and I flirt all the time but I begin to thread with causion. The reason being is that my colleague and him are very close, my colleagues behaviour around him changes dramatically when he sees him out the window, he pounces out of his chair and rushes out the door, he ends phone calls with customers, just to rush out the door and meet him throughout the day. When my colleague is around him I can only describe his reaction to his presents as becoming baby like. Considering this guy is my colleague, whenever I am in the presents of the both of them he ignores me, as if to say he won't share. I can't say that the other guy behaves in the same way towards my colleague other than he gives him a lot of his time. I would really like to get to know this guy and believe there is a chance he may be bisexual. Whenever my colleague is not around this guy and I get on well. Shall I pursue this guy or let it go?
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (14 January 2015):
 He might be friendly and well-mannered and so he allows your colleague's infatuation. Or he might be bisexual. Or he might be gay and is friendly and allows YOUR infatuation! If he his bi, will this bother you while being in a relationship with him? Will you be concerned about him cheating not only with women but also men?
If you believe he may be bisexual,and you can accept that into your relationship, then go for it!
If you can foresee more out coming problems because of it, then shake it off and let him be.
~SY
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