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Should I try and call people after I got so badly drunk and see how they react to me?

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Question - (26 July 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *utu22 writes:

I am ashamed of myself. I am in my mid 30's and got drunk at a party, acted very stupid and said so many things that I wouldn't normally say. All I remember is that it was pretty bad and my inhibitions had dropped very low and I would have said anything. The people I was with that day I know and everyone is linked somehow and that's what makes this worse. they all would talk about this since it is something new and exciting to talk about: how i acted and let the "party guy" kiss me. everyone asked me if i was his girlfriend and I am not...even more to be ashamed of. there are a lot of things i am embarrased of from that day and I probably offended people.

I feel low class and I really should have known better since this has happened to me before many times. I am older now and there is no excuse. I know that all I can do is learn from it and not do this next time and this is what most people will probably tell me . I just don't know if i should try to call people and try to see how they act with me? try to see if i did say something to offend them? i just don't know what to do because this situation makes me look so unclassy and i feel like it was a make or break day for me since i just came out of a relationship and really needed to set my reputation back up with people i havn't seen for a long time and they all wonder what kind of person i am. So in a matter of a few hours i was able to show them i am a stupid girl..i feel so low.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2011):

I would just apologize to the people. I think that's all you need to do.

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A female reader, tutu22 United States +, writes (26 July 2011):

tutu22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank u..one thing i need to clarify though is that the way i think i offended people is by being loud and obnoxious and blurting stuff..basically annoying and acting crazy. i didn't really attack anyone persay..

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2011):

I wouldn't ring up and ask what happened and what they think. I would ring up a few people who you're close to and apologize for your actions, and explain that you were in a bad place following a break up. An apology will make more difference than asking them if they were offended.

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A female reader, tutu22 United States +, writes (26 July 2011):

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and just to add to this I was not yelling at people or cursing or anything..i was just acting like I loved everybody and complimenting people way too much and acting like we were best friends and I do remember being pushed around a bit since people saw that I was drunk they were having fun with me and I was just laughing..just very ashamed of how i was acting.

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A male reader, Roshii United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2011):

Roshii agony auntYou can only apologize for your action at the party and take it all on the chin.

we've all been so embarrassingly drunk at some point in our life's so i really wouldn't be to worried about it.

So yeah take it on the chin, apologize let them know your embarrassed and have a little giggle about it.

It'll be old news soon.

I hope that helps

Roshii

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