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Should I text him? Or not?

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Question - (22 March 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2013)
A female Canada age 36-40, *oil writes:

I met this guy online, he lives about 1.5 hours away by ferry. We texted pretty much everyday quite a bit for just over a month. He made a few comments about coming up for a weekend. This scared me because what if we did not hit it off and I was kinda expected to hang out with him for awhile. So I choose to visit him, and from the schedule only had about 1.5 hours. The date went very well. He texted me right away saying unfoutante it was so short but glad and enjoyed having lunch. I text him the next day asking him how his st Patrickday was going he replied right away. It has been a few days since we have met and he seems to be texting allot less then before the meet. Should I just accept he decided that was that, I know he has quite a high end job that keeps him busy and allot of hobbies and could just be he is busy. Or should I text him and see how he is?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2013):

So very confused, yes that was me. I could not find the question and respond for some reason (not the best with computer) so I reposted. Since the first post however we had chatted a bit but much shorter then normal, and I think I am get a case of feeling him pull away make me into him more.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (22 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntDidn't you post and ask about if you should even have a LDR with this guy?

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-met-my-online-long-distance-guy-but.html

is this you?

in the beginning of my LDR I was the one rowing the boat a lot... I sent emails and made the calls...

if you want to touch base with him then I see no harm in trying once... but not by text... texts can get lost... phone would be better IMO.

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A female reader, Read-the-signs United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2013):

Don't chase him. Either he is interested enough to keep texting you or it's coming to an end. These are the plain facts and I'm not trying to offend you.

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2013):

Daisy_Daisy agony auntIf you like him and want to see him again then yes of course text (or better still phone him). No harm done, and otherwise you may never know what could have been! Good luck.

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2013):

R1 agony auntI'm assuming he hasn't stopped texting so that is a good sign.

He might be concerned about how much you will be able to see each other. Why not text and suggest meeting up again. If he doesn't seem keen then you will know it isn't going to go anywhere and can move on.

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