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Elof Valantor
writes:Some of you will think this is wrong and evil, some wont, but there we go.Simply put I really fancy my stepsister (no blood relation). It's a completely sexual attraction. I've no interest in a relationship - she isn't my type. That doesn't stop her being incredibly attractive, and I would really like to sleep with her. I'm wondering whether or not to tell her and see what happens, and how I would tell her if I decided to. I'd like some views from other people on it.I realise saying anything could be risky and potentially damaging, which is probably the main reason why I'm seeking some views from other people.To help give you an understanding of the situation I'll explain a few things. Firstly, we hardly ever see each other. I'm at Uni and don't go home often. When I do go home I'll see my dad for an evening or a day, of which I might see my stepsister for an hour or so. She's 22 and I'm 20. As far as I'm aware she has never thought of me in any way other than as a stepbrother, so I imagine any confession from me would be a complete surprise. I can trust her to keep it quiet if I should say anything I think. You can never be certain though.So yeah, looking forward to seeing what you all think. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Elof Valantor +, writes (17 May 2008):
Elof Valantor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo were weren't brought up together. I've only known her since my dad starting seeing her mum. They're married now so she's my stepsister.
We really don't know much about each other. We'll talk a bit if we're both visiting but that's about it.
Like I said, it's purely a sexual attraction.
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reader, natasia +, writes (17 May 2008):
Were you brought up together as brother and sister? if so, it would be very weird to do anything with her. If you weren't brought up together and hardly know her, then it's different, but I still think that it's a very bad idea. And once you've said it to her, there's no going back. She'll probably reject you, and also feel uncomfortable with you in the future.
To be honest, I'd leave it and find someone else.
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reader, Uncle_Phil +, writes (17 May 2008):
 You'll never know unles you ask! It might be a bit unromantic, but as you don't have romance in mind a simple question such as '"Fancy a fuck?" might get the result you're looking for, or maybe it wouldn't.
You've got 2 chances - she will or she won't.
Can't say I'd recommend it though.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (16 May 2008):
In the UK it is legal to have sex with a step-sibling. But its likely that this could cause alot more problems than normal. Its likely that you're parents will find out eventually if this did happen, how would they react?
Sex out of a relationship alsmost always ends with one person developing feelings for the other. Are you sure you wont end up wanting? even more difficult, are you sure you could turn her down if she wanted more? if one of you met another partner and the sex stopped, would you still feel comfortable around each other?
Ofcourse if she consents, you arent breaking any laws, just make sure you dont get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): If all you want is to use a "hottie" as your own personal sperm dumpster for a night, have some sense and look outside your family for it. I'm sure there are plenty of skanks out there who'd be willing - and who aren't related to you.
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