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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was over at my male friends house, and I found a book that had all our old game scores in it. Games like canasta and rummy and dice. Anyway, i was flipping through this book, and all of a sudden there were all these really crude suggestive gross comments in it about me. Like how he liked the shorts i was wearing that showed off my ass, or that my shirt was really short and all he wanted to do was see my nipples. It's really embarrassing and I feel extremely degraded. It make me want to wear bag lady clothes, but he made really gross comments on stuff i would never think would even be sexy. He is a really lonely person, i get that, but I don't even want to talk to him anymore. He is a really close friend of the family. And it was something i don't think i should have been reading to begin with. But is it normal that he would write such gross things about me? He is in the 30's. Is it something i have to worry about? Should I tell my husband?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): Men lust after women, that's what most of us do. He was just stupid to write it down in a place where you found it. I agree, give him a break. You only need to tell your husband if this guy tries something.
If you set him up with some nice girl maybe it would be good for him and good for you in that his attention would be diverted!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): you were in his house and read where he scribbled down some private thoughts. You shouldnt tell, and you should try to forget it too. It will only cause problems if you open that pandoras box. He was prolly lonely and hormonal at the time and would be really embarrassed if he knew you read it. I would just leave it alone. Its not like he came onto you or projected his thoughts upon you. Guys notice girls, especially single lonely ones. If he behave appropriatly, then give him a break. :).
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reader, ton +, writes (23 July 2010):
well, you should unless you had sex with this guy before.
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