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writes:i need some help and i dont know who to turn to, so maybe y'all can help me. About 5 months ago i met the most incredible woman. We started talking and we just clicked. We both admitted we had feelings for each other but she is married. I told her that if something were to ever happen i would want to be there as her friend first and help her. She came out of the closet about 2 months ago, left her hubby and stuff like that. I still email her everyday like i have always done and she emails me back every now and again. Im now wondering if i should tell her how i feel, i love this woman and it would kill me to see her with someone else. She is everything i ever wanted in a woman. Everyday in my emails i say miss you. and when she writes me back, she will sometimes say i miss you too .Help me please Reply to this Question
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reader, SJ_ninety +, writes (18 June 2008):
 I think you should keep as much contact with her as possible. For now, be there for her when she needs advice and comforting. I'm sure that's how you are already, but make sure not to "smother" her. Start "painting the town red" with her and eventually, when you're both comfortable enough, give her a kiss on the lips. If she reacts the way you would want her to react (kisses you back and it escalates into something more), then she has some feelings for you. And if it continues this way, ask her to be your girlfriend.
I know I'm sounding pretty lame now and I might not be helping much, but I tried, lol. GOOD LUCK WITH HER! I'm sure she's an amazing woman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): I think it is too soon to rush into things and that you should wait a while to tell her your true feelings.
However, I think that you should be supportive towards her, because shes going through a tough time and it will show you care.
Wait a couple of months aftr the dvorce is finished, don't race forward...
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