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Should I tell him that I was a virgin when we met?

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Question - (17 July 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2015)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing this guy now for some time.

We've had sex, and I enjoy it but I've been harbouring this little secret since our first time.

He has no idea that I was a virgin before I met him. It's been about three months now and it's not something that'll bother me, but is it something that I should tell him?

Would you want to know?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2015):

If things go swimmingly in the first year of your marriage, then tell him on your first anniversary!

He will love it and your bed will rock like the first time you did it (which was good I hope).

good luck...

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2015):

Denizen agony auntYou should wait until your relationship becomes established, otherwise he might see it as you imposing some sort of tie on him - even if you are not.

Later it might seem a nice little gift to give him if things are going well.

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