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Should I tell him I think she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder? She's pregnant!

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Question - (5 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Should I tell the husband of a friend I strongly suspect has Narcissistic Personality Disorder that I think she has the disorder? He and I had a past crush on each other and she knows this. She is 8 months pregnant with their 1st child. We all no longer speak because of her narcissistic traits. She is emotionally abusing her husband and I fear what she will do to her child emotionally if her husband isn't aware and makes attempts to prevent it. Their marriage is already shaky due to her narcissism but they are trying to make it work because she is pregnant. I know they will take my suspicions of her NPD as an attempt to break up their marriage.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

Really? You think SHE has narcissistic personality disorder? Are you a psychologist. You sound jealous and completely involved in something that has nothing to do with you...which sounds pretty narcissistic to me.

If you are genuinley concerned about this baby, which your not, then you could contact child protective services.

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2010):

boo22 agony auntI don't know anyone involved, but from what you've written I think you're absolutely right.

It does sound like sour grapes on your part and you will make things worse.

It's none of your business, let them get on with it.

If he asks you for advice then give your opinion, till then stay out of it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2010):

Do not tell him. He chose her, he must solve his own problems. If you get involved, you will be the one who is seen as the bad person and the home wrecker, which I know you don't want. If he chooses to stay in the marriage, then that is his choice and his alone.

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