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Should I tell him how I feel now or leave him alone since he's finally moved on?

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Question - (27 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *il_em writes:

Hi,

OK so about 3 years ago I was dating this guy who I had known for years. He was amazing, treated me like a princess, was generally a perfect boyfriend. However I went to uni and so I broke up with him I'm not really sure why I just got caught up in everything I think. He took it badly while I moved on and met someone who I was with for about 2 years. He has eventually moved on too however when I saw him 3 months after I had broken up with my boyfriend he asked me what would happen if we were both single. Since then I have developed really strong feelings for him again and I keep thinking how amazing it could be. However he has a new girlfriend an they haev been together nearly a year so I don't want to cause trouble....should I tell him how I feel now or leave him alone since he's finally moved on?

Please help!

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (28 April 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntVery good advice from Oldersister!! Don't interfer in your ex's relationship...you were the one to break things off with him! Just let things go, and maybe later on down the line when he is no longer in that relationship, you can tell him then...that's if you still have the strong feelings for him

Good luck!!

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A female reader, Oldersister United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2007):

Oldersister agony auntdon't do it. you want what you cannot have! Don't wreck what he has. ok, if he becomes single and the feelings are still there, fine, but not while he is with another. don't be THAT girl

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