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writes:I've recently started a job that placed me in a friend of a friends home as a housekeeper/caregiver, full time. my employer (let's call her S) is just a little older than me and engaged with 2 children. her fiancé, J, is away working often for weeks on end. it has come to my attention, quite clearly, that S is cheating on J with one of my guy friends; she stays out long past her shifts and I've been shown text msgs from her to my friend. J and I had a conversation before that sort of got onto the topic of cheating, and he mentioned knowing she had cheated before ... he had told her if she did it again she was history. however, I'm pretty sure he's not aware of her and my friend. long before I started working for them, I had seen J around (he's friends with the guy S cheated with) and I've always thought he was attractive; after getting to know him I found he is a genuinely nice guy, who clearly doesn't deserve to have his friend and gf sneaking around behind his back. however, I don't know if it's my place to tell him about it or if the feelings I'm developing for him are compelling me to do something that could break their family apart...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011): Keep your mouth shut and your head down. They always shoot the messenger.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (30 August 2011):
 You've got a conflict of interest here, I'd stay WAY away from this one. The messenger has a nasty habit of getting beheaded in situations like this, not to mention the fact they employ you... and you don't sound like you have irrefutable proof either.
I can understand the temptation, really, I can... but I reckon stay out of it, its not your business to meddle in.
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