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writes:I recently found out from my hairdresser that my child's father is going to Jamaica for the summer to do voluntary work. I saw him last week and mentioned that I willl be going on holiday to Jamaiaca. I did not mention that I heard he will be. Hairdresser is quite reliable as he is very friendly with her boyfriend.I felt bad. I was hoping to use this as an opportunity to sort out our problems as we have been very distant and have not been intimate for over a year. I feel he still likes me but I feel cold as he will not move the relationship on.I am going to book my holiday on Monday. Do you think I should make suggestions to him. He loves his child and what a nicer place to try and sort out our relationship.I am not staying with family so it will be more relaxed.Any advice welcomed. By the way another reason why I have been blowing cold is because he makes me feel as though he is embassassed of me. He does not introduce me to friends or family. I have known him 26 years and we have been together the last 9 years. Our child is 6.Thanks for any advice.
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reader, lovesweetangel2  +, writes (27 June 2009):
I think you could make a suggestion, if not tell him you found out he was staying there too and offer to maybe just meet up. Staying the whole time may be overwhelming for both of you but if you just meet up a few times it may help. Besides, what if you meet like the first day and then all he thinks about for the rest of the time is you and your kid! Yes, that's like a fairytale ending but who knows, people deserve to be happy right? Good luck!
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 i think that you need to follow ur gut instincts.
as he's been cold with you it doesnt seem like he is interested in the relationship.
unless u ask him u wont know how he really feels towards you and why u havent met his friends or family.
9 years is a long time to be with someone and not be introduced to his friends or family. it looks like he is hiding something.
this is not a good sign.
instead of being stuck in limbo in this relationship next time u get the opportunity ask him how he feels about you!
in the meanwhile book the tickets and enjoy your time.
Good luck!
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