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Should I stop texting my best friend's brother because of the family?

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Question - (9 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have fallen for my best friends brother. We shared kiss on holiday and recently had been texting each other and its clear we both wanted something more however due to other people being around we never had the chance to be alone.

Recently his family realised we were texting each other and noticed how we got along when we were together. The problem is they dont think we should get together as we have both had failed relationships in the past and they feel if things went wrong it would cause too many problems for everyone in the future. Now Im worried about texting him as Im not sure how he feels about the family issue.

I would just let go but I have been in love with him for ten years but kept it to myself and I dont want to risk losing something that could be great. We get along really well but now I feel like we are under surveillance to stop us being alone to discuss things.

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A female reader, baby blue fairy United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

Wow you must really like him 10 years! If this is true love little things like family and your mate getting in the way shouldn’t bother you, its not his family you’re dating remember its him! So keep him don’t let something good go over something like this I know how hard it must be maybe you should tell your mate and she will reassure you I’m sure

Hope this helps good luck

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A female reader, here_2_help United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2007):

here_2_help agony auntoh god i feel for you. poor you really 10 years is a long time talk to your best friend tell her every thing you have posted on here if she is a true friend she will suport you. its true what they say you cant pick who you fall in love with and if you love him and its not just lust and he feels the same way then you have no problem.

hope this helps xx

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