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writes:for 6 months now i have been in love with this guy, ive only ever confided in my best friend aboutb this, i used to spend hours on the phone to her talking about him, my brother had a party recently and at the beginning i was getting extremely annoyed because she was completely flirting with him, and i have now found out that she kissed him later on, she was the only one that i confided in about him and yet she completely stabbed me in the back, there were loads of guys there and she chose him, he has now completely fallen for her and she broke his heart, he won't talk to me now either. is she really worth keeping as a friend? she has hurt me so deeply and i now hold deep resentment towards her. i have known her since i was 4 and she has always been my best friend, i know it is stupid to fall out over a guy but it's just the fact the she went behind my back and calculated something that she KNEW more than anyone would hurt me so much, what kind of a friend does that? should i still be her friend? or is this new side of her trouble? someone please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnow she is changing her college and her corse to the one he is on! she said she didnt know but its obvious that she knew, it will kill me if they get together, i already suffer from depression and i don't think i would be able to handle the situation. somebody please help!
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 See? :) She seems to have not meant to hurt you, on purpose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your answer, she told me she always liked him a little but it was only a stupid crush, she said she wished her conscience has come in quicker ever though she had planned it..
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (1 September 2007):
Well, maybe she always liked him just as much, and never told you. Second of all, this is going to sound wrong, but it's true. The guy was single, and he was still free game, while ya. It sucks a lot that your best friend made a move on the guy you like, it's no reason to end a friendship. I'm sure, that if you guys are such good friends, she didn't do it to hurt you. Was she drinking? Smoking herb? There's alot of things that could have effected her judgment. Instead of being angry about it, why don't you talk to her about it?
Best of luck, Take care.
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