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Should I stay with a Bf who has chosen to hang out with this girl I do not like?

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Question - (9 August 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2014)
A female United States age 22-25, *ovelyDestiny writes:

My boyfriend hanged out with a girl that I really don't like lets just say this girl name C and his name is A well my boyfriend A got drunk with his brothers and his brother girlfriend a month ago and lied about it I found out about it because he smelt like liquor so he finally admitted it and told me yes he got drunk I asked him how come he lied his answer was because I told him I didn't like people that drank cuz my family were drunkies and they went crazy when drinking he said he was sorry and would do anything to gain my trust back which he has been doing since that month he lied while I asked if he did Anything and he told me he walked his brother girlfriend home while he was drunk and that once he got to her house she called his friends to pick him up while I called her the next morning and asked if anything happened and she started giggling and said I put a strap on and butt fucked Him and then said I was playing we didn't do anything that made me so mad.

I was about to dump my bf ass I told my bf that was disrespect ful and he said in not making any excuses but she plays like that.

I saw his Facebook and she said that he went into her house to get some coffee but he told me he didn't that she was playing around too with that.

Yesterday he called me and told me he was hanging out with C at the pet store that he was alone that he needed someone to talk

I got mad and told him not to call me.

Am I being dramatic about this whole thing ?

Should he be hanging out with a girl who told me she butt fucked him when he was drunk, but really didn't

I need an answer to be able to move on with this whole thing thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2014):

I can't believe you are between the ages of thirteen and fifteen, but no matter how old you are, you should not date this person. Have more respect for yourself. Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you. These people sound like pathetic losers who will drag you down to their level.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2014):

How old are your boyfriend and his brother's girlfriend?

He should be no older than a year compared to you and, if he's drinking, he shouldn't be.

Disliking the girl is your problem, not his - but I don't blame you for not liking her.

Personally, I think you should stay single and focus on your education until you're 16. If you're nearly 16, I'd still advise you to stay single until you're 17 or 18 and just flirt a litt (but not sexually or leading anyone on) to get a feel for who you are as an individual and just avoid boys who drink :)

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