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Should I stay friends with her even though we've broken up?

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Question - (25 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2007)
A male , anonymous writes:

alright I'm a male and I'm nineteen and shes fifteen we've been together for almost a year we just broke up and were both virgins by the way she says she loves me and i love her but now she says its not the same we don't see each other that much and it really sucks the communicating has stopped and i suspect she started talking to other girl i told her its for the best that me and her break up but she still want to be friends?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

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should we really stay friends she wants some more time???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007):

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i really suspect she started talking to other guys but she doenst want to tell me it really sucks for me i really care aboutt his girl and wish i could be with her still but how can the communication start again? i think i took it to fast maybe. this is the first realationship in really been in and now i feel my confidence has went downnnnn..i cant really talk to other girls now i dont know what to say? when i met her i was really confident but as time went by she made me feel bad alot and idontknow this girl just has my heart i want her in my life and i wish she really wanted me as more than a friend

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A male reader, Chad039 United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2007):

Chad039 agony auntWell all i can say is stay Friends with her.. Who knows what could happen in the future. By being friends you can share more things with her and then maybe someday it will be better for you as friends could lead to something more ..

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A male reader, sleepyhollow American Samoa +, writes (25 May 2007):

Nothing wrong with being friends, as long as you both agree to keep it platonic. This must be explicitly stated and agreed to.

You have to be prepared for the fact that given time she'll probably eventually move on and find another boyfriend. You'll also move on and find someone closer to you in age.

It isn't the end of the world, and the love you share, if true enough, may be the basis for a beautiful friendship.

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