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writes:I was eating in a restaurant with my guy who can't say he loves me (A question from last week. He tells me to drive carefully - out of the blue - or something similar all the time.) the other night and we were discussing our daughters whose birthdays are three weeks apart. They are both 20 and talking about marrying their boyfriends. Out of the blue, he asked me what kind of wedding I would want if I got remarried. I said that the justice of the peace was fine with me and he said that's what he wanted to do too.I didn't think too much about it at the time, but now I am wondering. Is that the kind of a question that a man asks a woman he's been seeing for 8 months if it is not something he is thinking about or am I reading too much into it? Guys?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Nobody really knows. Just be happy that you're on the same page as far as your desires for a future wedding. If you want to be with him, that's a good thing. If the romance is going fine, just enjoy his company be thankful you've got a nice partner. No matter what you're thinking, he knows what he's thinking. You'll have to wait and see. In my opinion/guess....I'd say he was curious because he's interested and he's wondering what your thoughts are....just my thoughts though.
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reader, Superdave67 +, writes (24 October 2007):
Tough call. I think everyone thinks about marriage with someone they are dating. I think he needs to be able to say he loves you before he starts proposing. He may be thinking about it, but I couldn't imagine proposing to someone who I haven't professed my love to yet.
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 He might have been just curious. I wouldn't get my hopes up, not until you see a ring.
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reader, lara54  +, writes (24 October 2007):
ok i know i dont have any experience in this situation but if a guy is asking you what kinda wedding u would want he definatly is thinking bout it he might now do it in the imdieate future but it certainly would have crossed his mind.
xx mel
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