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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So there is this girl that i have liked for about a year and a half now and i ended up asking her out on valentines day 2010. She said no and she didn't talk to me for 3 months. Then we started talking again and now we are good friends again. But the problem is, I still like her and she doesn't like me back. She likes this other guy that I know as well and I am trying to help her get him but i secretly hope that he says no to her, but I also don't want to see her sad. and on top of all of this, she is going away to college this fall and i will not see her for a while. I've been tearing myself apart thinking about all of this and its been making me depressed about her saying no, liking a different guy, and going to college. But on the other hand, I can't stop thinking about her, she makes me happy, and my friends say that i am noticably happier. And I cant just Forget about her because I'm also friends with her twin and her other sister.Overall, I'm just wondering what I should say to her, or if I should just try to stay friends and tear myself apart, or try to go to a college near her in 2011-2012? I really need some advice...
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (28 July 2010):
 oh man you reminded me of my self dude i fell for my best freind he rejected me and now we're freinds again(as he thinks) so the best advice is GET OVER HER ....well you know you're always by her side leave her alone for a while i am sure she will notice you and at least thinks about you ....how about havig a girl friend just to see how she reacts you can pretend that you're over her and see how stuff will be ........you can wish that that guy she likes will say yes and then break her heart (man i know it's tuff but trust it will work out)and then she will find a warm shoulder to cry on and try to give your best cause maybe you'll win a kiss .........good luck buddy
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