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41-50,
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writes:Hello guys. Just wanted peoples view on what I should do. I am a manager of a shop and have seen a customer pop in from time to time, every month or so not often at all. I passed him by today on the street and we smiled at each other. When he pops into the shop he doesn't say much but last time he came in I did initiate a bit of a conversation by asking how he was. It is tricky as I do not know when I'll see him again. I like him and really want to ask him out for coffee some day. Would this be appropriate? If I see him again, perhaps in the shop, and if I have time, should I pass my number to him and be brave and ask him? Not sure if he has a girlfriend, do not think he is married (not seen a ring) he seems a bit shy too, so not sure if he might be scared off if I give my number! What do you reckon??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 March 2016):
 I agree with honeypie try and do a bit more digging before you give him your number. A few more conversations, ask his name, general questions and try and find out if he is single. Maybe you could ask him does he have any children that might be an indicator. Good luck.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (23 March 2016):
 Do you know his name, by chance? If so I'd do a little checking up on him first (like see if he has a Facebook or other social media website). Because that way you can avoid a awkward situation if he is married or in a long term relationship.
Lots of people don't wear a ring when married. So you can't really go by that alone.
If you don't know his name, why not introduce yourself and learn his name? And THEN check him out. If he seems single, ask him out next time you run into him.
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