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writes:I have been in a relationship for a year. We are pretty good/happy together but it worries me that he never tells me he loves me he only said it twice that i can remember...but everytime i tell him i love him he replies by saying "i know" :( when we started dating he used to call me his princess, beatiful and what not. Now he doesnt. Ive asked him why he doesnt do this anymore but he says he does. He's not romantic at all with me. Ive seen posts on his fb from along time ago were he posted on ex gf fb page(before we were dating posts)"happy vday my love" i got a plastic flower n he took me to a hotel for vday,and on a pic of his pet "our love child. Lol"(to the ex) i hate to compare but hy isnt he like that with me? He does show me signs of affection by hugging me n smiling at me at random times when hes just staring at me, n hes introduced me to his friends and family, hangin out with me daily, and trying to please me in things i wanna do. Oh and should i mention that recently im the one with the higher sex drive?...i try to initiate sex n sometimes he says things like why r u always so horny? Or weres ur off button? but yet ive seen searches on his phone for girls this n bigbottomed girls ect, also liking sexy related girl things on fb(certified hotties, boobies booties snd babes...) I dont see these things necessary when i have a big ass n a good body. All these little comments and actions/ no actions lower my self-esteem. Am i exaggerating?
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reader, Alex242  +, writes (25 April 2012):
Try to be less available to him; start being too busy to hang out sometimes.
You could also try asking him straight out about his feelings for you, in a calm manner.
The thing about his asking where your off button is bothers me. If he can't be straight to you about his feelings, perhaps it is time to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks just needef some reasurance...but funny thing today wen i saw him he wouldnt stop kissing me..agh, mixed signals! :(
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reader, traeumerin242 +, writes (24 April 2012):
I hate to sound harsh, but it seems like he may have lost interest in you romantically. From what you describe, he seems to like you well enough, but he doesn't seem to want sexual contact with you all the time. Perhaps this is one to keep in the "friends" arena.
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