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writes:My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2years from school to university.I love her truely, but our lives are starting to change and there are so many girls at university.Should I break up with her or go on and maybe regret it someday?
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reader, salinew  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 it really depends on how you feel. if you're true in what you say with your love for her then it is best to stay with her for better and for worse. if you heart is waning and you see no saving grace let her know, maybe you just need time to think it over without restraint. the fact that there r so many uni girls should not even come close to deterimining wehter or not to end your relationship, the quantity of these women should never destroy what you have found in one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): ...i was in a similar situation a couple of months ago, and unfortunately i made the wrong choice (for my situation, every situation is different) I decided that we should take a break. However...after couple months, a lot of heartache and discussions/problems, i'm alone and missing her. In my opinion, you should realize what you have...sometimes we don't see how lucky we are until they're not there anymore. If its not broke, don't try and fix it...if nothing is wrong with your relationship, why mess with it. Just follow your heart...
I miss her...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Hey there,
I think you should follow your heart. If you really feel like you need to go out with other girls, it is best to let your girlfriend know, so you can tell her upfront that you want to leave her. You certainly would not want to stay and cheat. On the other hand, if you are really committed to her and know within your heart that she is the one you want to be with, you should stay.
The most important thing is to be honest with her.
I am a university student. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years - all of which have been at university. Instead of actually leaving me to be with other girls, he continuosly cheats. I think its better you are honest from the beginning and do what is right for you.
I must warn you though, you might soon find that all those other girls do not come close to your girlfriend.
Think long and hard before you leave your girlfriend. There may be a lot of girls (quantity), but what kind of girls are they - you need to be concerned with quality, rather than quantity.
All the best
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (22 March 2008):
 if you truly love her you shiouldnt need any other girls youll regret it later if you leave her
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reader, Judge Jade  +, writes (22 March 2008):
I think that you should be loyal to your girlfriend and try to remember all the times that she has been there for you over the past 2 years - including all the good times that you have experienced together. If you "truely" love her and end the relationship then that will be the only action that you will regret in the future. Yes, I understand that uni life is all about experiencing new things but why look for something that you already have! BE HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE THE WAY THAT IT IS, GUYS ALWAYS THINK THAT THEY ARE MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING WHEN THEY REALLY AREN'T!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): If the mere fact that there are "so many girls at university" (just what the hell does that mean, anyway?) is enough to cause you to doubt your relationship, then, no, you don't "love her truely."
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