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writes: My bf is leavin the country soon we both stay in different cities he cant come n see me and now he wants me to come there, i have to take a lot of risks if i really wanted to see him but still he wants me to come.my folks will never let me go if i tell them the truth and i hate lying to them but his explanation is that if i dont come we wont be able to meet 4 a long time and he tells me iam old enough to take my decisions . should i lie to my folks n go n see him?
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (28 October 2006):
 If he is your best friend then why wont they let you go see him?? They should support you. I would ask and tell really tell them how much it would mean to you. Then let tell him what happened and see if your folks could let you and him meet before he goes. Good luck i hope it works out.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (28 October 2006):
 well how old are you? for starters if you are 18 or over then may be explaining to your parents that you are now 18 and old enough to make your own decisions then explain to them that you will and want to go and see your boyfreind but the thing that will make you happier on going to see your boyfreind is knowing youve been honest and knowing your parents are still going to be there for you when you get back as well as them accepting you have grown up now, then ask weather they can accept everything you do or else you will never know mistakes if they dont. how ever if you are under 18 it is best to listen to your parents untill you are 18. but if you are 18 or over go and see your boyfreind just make sure if you live with your parents that you have some where else to stay when you come back in case they dont allow you to live back there with them. tell your parents where you are going as honesty is always better than lieing. and remember always do what makes you happy!
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reader, DEBS83 +, writes (28 October 2006):
 how old are you ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): Firstly how old are you and how long have you been in a relationship with him. You sound like you're not sure of the idea yourself. If you were you would be comfortable with telling your parents. You can't just get on a plane without anyone knowing where you're going, what if something DID happen, your family or friends need to know this. DO NOT LIE TO YOUR FOLKS OK? if you think it's ok to go see him just tell your parents that you want to there is no reason for you to lie if it is safe and you'd be ok. so you need to ask yourself is this guy trustworthy do your parents trust him. do yu trust him?
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