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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Right now, i am caught in a dilemma of whether i should keep on hoping and fighting inside, by keeping up with NC and expecting with strong belief that my ex boyfriend will come back to me. I am gay, 17 years old.I posted this question some time ago...http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-recently-broke-up-with-his-rebound.htmlIt's been a while since that day, when i received so much hope from the kind community here. I sincerely appreciate the help.There doesn't seem to be any visible progress in our reconciliation process. I'm feeling lost, i don't know if we're on the right track. I'm afraid that if i keep on expecting like this i may only be disappointed badly.However, if someone can tell me i REALLY DO stand a chance, then i'd love to keep on believing. And praying to God. Because this can serve as another good motivation for my life, for me to stay hopeful and try my best to stay positive and look towards tomorrow.I miss him so much, i've talked to a lot of people. Some told me to give up while some told me to hang on. I can't even decide for myself anymore. I honestly need help in analysing my situation. I kinda wish i could just move on, but part of me simply refuses to. Letting go is easier said than done. I just need more motivation and hope as i've lost focus...
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reader, cheers  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Hi.Since you know clearly that you're moving nowwhwere, frustrated on this situatuion,please do something. Noone can decide for you. We here give helpful solutions with lots different perspectives. but decisions simply rely on your hands. You've to decide.It's your own happiness, oyur precious life. Can you do that?
Make up your mind & think wisely. Where's your courage? Stand up and tell yourself,"I Can DO It, MACHO MAN". Face it!
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