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writes:Should i leave him?My partner of ten years and who is the father of my son has cheated three times on me.The last time i wanted him to leave but somehow he managed to convince me it wasnt him. However 6 months later he tells me it was.I still feel really angry as i defended him against everyone; when they all told me i deserved better! Roll on 2 years and he still hasnt done any of the things he has promised me and i know he's lying to me again.I feel i'm turning into a really sad bitter person and this is transfering onto my son. I love my boyfriend but i do you that i should grow up and leave; make things better for me and my son.Does anyone have any advise on how i can move forward? I can no longer talk to friends or family about things as they say i should have gone a long time ago. Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Why are you questioning this? You already know what needs to be done.
Leave him. I know you love him, but how much does he love you if he is cheating on you, lying to you and putting you and your son in second?
Get out of this abusive relationship and move on to someone who is going to cherish you and your son. You deserve that and your son deserves that.
Your son probably thinks that his father's behavior is acceptable and how he is supposed to be, leave so your son has a chance to be better than that and so you can be happy with your life.
Good luck.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Without another word, take your son, take your things and leave. Go to a family's house or a friend's house or even a hotel if you can afford it until you can find another place to live. Get a divorce.
He will know why you left. Let your son grow up in change so he can be a better man, he can be an honest man. Let yourself free from his grasp so you can be that happy and optimistic person you were before.
I hope that helps.
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