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writes:please help.i meet this guy coming up to 2 weeks so far its been good,ive been round his house 3 times and stayed over night the thing is he wants sex and deep down i want it two but not just yet, anyway this weekend i went away on a day trip and he went out with his mates,on sunday morning i txt him asking if i had done anything wrong and he said no. i replyed thats ok then, then later on yesterday i txt again asking if i could stay round 2nite,then again to make sure i had not done anything wrong. still no reply. i rang him but did not answer,now i dont think he likes me at all, what do you guys think i should do keep txting him or comfront him on why hes not talking to me i do really like him plz,plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 I think I'd leave it be. Don't text or call him anymore. Let him come to you. You don't want him to think you are desperate. Men don't like desperate.
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reader, myboyfriendsacnt +, writes (26 November 2007):
Hi there, i know this is hard when u really like someone but he sounds like hes not interested. If he liked you the same way you like him then surely he'd be the one calling you??
if u really wanna persist ith this then one of the best ways 2 get a guys attention is 2 play hard 2 get, if u show him your bothered by his lack of interest i dont think he'll come running. plan lots of things with your girlfriends and keep yourself busy. U never know he might end up chasing you for a bit of time.
on the other hand maybe send a simple final txt... saying listen ive tried contacting u with no luck... if your not bothered any more then u can tell me... i can handle it.'
goood luck xx
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (26 November 2007):
 From a blokes point of view it sounds like he was only after one thing. If he liked you in the same way you do him, a few weeks is nothing to have to wait before sex. It really doesn't sound like he's worth the effort
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reader, love-him +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Hey honey, you sound like you have done everthing in your power to get him to talk to you, now its his turn. You need to wait for him to get in touch with you, if stil nothing tomorrow then it may be ideal for you to text him saying something like is that it then I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x
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