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writes:Can long distance relationships actually work???im 18yrs old and live in scotland at home with my father and i have met a really nice guy who is 21. he stays by himself in his own house in england. we have been talking for a good while and done cam2cam chats aswell. im very curious tho to wether or not im jumping in feet first! is it possible for our type of long distance relationship to work??? i know everything about him and he knows everything about me. we have met only once, and he says he is willing to drive up and see me. he has also met my 2yr old daughter and the fact i have a child didnt phase him at all. were as most guys would have ran a mile. him and my daughter got on briliantly and could help but well up inside when i seen them together. it was like the happy little familys that only ever exist in fairy tales. i have really fallen for him and he has done like wise. my daughter always asks for him when she sees him on the webcam but should i keep this going or get out before me, him and my daughter get hurt????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): you probably don't care advice from me. but i think you should but you guys should try to see each other more and make sure he is being faithful to you. If you guys don't see each other he could really hurt you. But if you too really do love each other i think you both will be very happy together when you too are finally together.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 When there is love , nothing is impossible. There was a case of an English girl from UK who ran away from home to marry her Egyptian husband whom she met online.
Someday you will have to have your own family and life. If you have found your Prince Charming, you will have to follow your heart no matter where he lives.
Perfect love cast out fear.Opportunity does not come always.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (17 January 2008):
Ok you have fallen in love with him and it feels good but good wisdom to step back a bit and ask yourself.Judging from my personal experience i wouldn't encourage any1 to do it but it really depends on you two and the future plans that you guys have coz you'll eventually want more than this.My girlfriend cheated on me and her main excuse was da distance,she couldn't handle it.It can work but you need to make plans so you can be together soon and not just use webcams for da rest of your love affair.In all honesty,if you two remain true to each other,it'll definitely work but people have a habit of disappointing you when you least expect them to do it.
Good Luck.
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (17 January 2008):
 I think you need to look to the future, to answer your own question. If you get really serious about each other, you are going to want to live together, possibly have children of your own, and have each other there for constant support. In the long run a web cam isn't going to be enough. Can you see yourself moving away from your family?
Could he move closer to you?
He sounds worth it, though, so I wish you all the best!
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