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writes: I have a really wierd sexual fantasy and I'm pretty sure any guy who ever heard it would run a mile! So should I just keep it to myself unless someone who I judge to be open minded enough comes along?If you're thinking what could be so wierd I have a thing for men who dress up as women and who will wear high heels and PVC nurse outfits etc as well as makeup, but no wig. Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Thanks for sharing anonymous.. yes, it's best when your with someone who will listen to your secrets. Sometimes it's our pride and embarrasment, rather than the other person's reaction that holds us back from enjoying so much about life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): You should hear some of my wife's fantasies that she recently confessed to having. We've been married for more than two decades and this just came out. This one of yours is similar to those she told me. Don't feel rotten about yourself. You're normal. It's the uptight, secretive people who are not. My wife and I are separating because she did this all behind my back. Apparently, she feels the need to think I am a wet blanket and that I would not have listened and would not have complied with her fantasies. Is your desire any more fantastic than hers?
Here are some of hers: she wanted a particular men and two women in the next apt. bldg. to watch her exercising nude so she arranged the curtains and blinds in such a way (open only a little, within six inches of the sill) that they could watch her yet think it was entirely innocent and accidental. She put up our digital video cam so that she could watch them watching her. This excited her tremendously.
She has intense fantasies of having sex with a beautiful shemale. Two different times, she met two different strangers, a man and a woman on the internet and met them at hotels "to fulfill a spanking fantasy."
There are many more she's told me about. Go ahead and tell someone you like of your now-secret wish. If they ridicule you, just drop them and find someone who is compatible. My wife needs counseling, I think. I would have listened to anything she had to say. I love her but not her lying nor her need to turn me into a reproachful jealous authority figure.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 July 2010):
lol.. enjoy yourself..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I do have a boyfriend/fwb/someone I'm seeing. It's eclusive but we haven't actually made it properly official.
He is really really kinky. Even more than me, which is good because then he suggests things to try not just me. Our relationship is pretty wierd and I don't want to suddenly make it too wierd as I know his fantasy and it's just whips and handcuffs etc!!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 July 2010):
lol.. your british, look at Jordon (aka. Katie Price) she's got herself a strongman cage fighter, who comes home and dresses up in woman's stuff..
Anything is possible, you just got to find the right guy. :)
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 July 2010):
Not unusual, unfortunately most men of your age don't do the kinky stuff.
You don't sound like you have a boyfriend yet. Get man first, you'll need him.. Then if he's the right guy, with a little encouragement you can tempt him to please you in dressing up.
Start slow so you don't frighten him.. and never be disgusted or afraid of your fantasies, that's what you like, some like vanilla ice-cream, but you like chocolate..
When you are older, and people have more experience, you'll find a man to fullfill your fantasies. Right now, check on alt.sex for sexy stories of men who feel comfortable doing what you suggest. In fantasy anything is possible, you'll have to satisfy yourself with that until the right man comes along..
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Uncommon, but not super rare. I wouldn't suggest saying it on a first date, but when a guy's close to you, when you're in a serious relationship, and as long as you don't start by making demands, you should be able to share your thoughts with him.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 July 2010):
 I'd keep it to yourself until you've been dating awhile. But as far as weird goes, this isn't all that weird. Have you seen what's on the internet nowadays? But yeah, you shouldn't tell him on the first date or anything.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Fantasies are good but this may not be one to throw on the table on the second date. Or maybe you should go looking for love in a fetish club.
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