A
female
age
36-40,
*_maldita
writes:It has been hard for me last few weeks since the break up...But this week I met a guy that I can really get along with and always show signs of interest in me.Being with him for the past few days made me forget about my problems.He told me that he accepts me for who I am and that he is willing to take me as me and love me if I give him chance.I'm having second thoughts about this since I just recently broke up and I'm afraid he might turn out to be the rebound guy.But being with him feels good and he makes me happy all the time...Should I be with this guy and find out if I really have some feelings for him or keep distance and let my heart heal for a while???After all me and my ex haven't really talked about the finality of everything... Only we are buying each other time to think and realize things.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (5 August 2011):
 I was going to say give him a chance but be totally clear with him you have just broken up and he could be your rebound. Honesty so he knows.
However, I just read at the end that perhaps you haven't truly broken up from your original partner. You say you are buying time to realise things. Well, that's what you need to do, have the break and try to get some clear thinking. I would advise against a new partner for the moment especially as you may realise you want to give your original partner another try. You would complicate things if you had had a brief fling or relationship with the new guy. I say, unless you are clear that you are not going to start up again, then don't date the new guy.
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