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Should I just leave him alone or tell him the truth? Because I do like him, even though I would not let him kiss me earlier.

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Question - (3 March 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Recently a man at work and I have been flirting, he bought me flowers and we went out for lunch with another work colleague. He went in for a kiss and I pulled away as we work together, but ever since I can't get him out of my head.

But since I said no to kissing him, he isn't talking me on anymore.

I pinched his bum and he said " you better stop it or I'll do it to you and you won't like it," but said it in a way that made it sound like I don't like him!

I do though! I've tried flirting and he does back but it's not the same!

Should I just leave him alone now or speak to him?

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A female reader, when nothing goes right go left United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2013):

when nothing goes right go left agony auntHe probably feels rejected and maybe that you don't like it so you just need to explain your feelings to him and tell him why you pulled back and then he should understand.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (3 March 2013):

dirtball agony auntYou shut him down. Plain and simple. He now thinks your flirting is merely to tease him for your amusement. He was obviously hurt by the rejection.

If you like him, you need to tell him. He most likely will not try to cross that boundary again on his own.

You can rest assured that his feelings for you probably haven't faded, but it's better to speak to him sooner than later. Make up your mind about if YOU want to pursue it. If you think you do, talk to him.

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