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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I have only been married 3 months, and already everything has changed. He has completely lost any interest in sex. I am trying everything I can think of. The only time we have been together in the last month was when I roleplayed a fantasy of his. I do not want to spend the rest of my life pretending to be someone else to get my husband to want to be with me. We are young, I am 23 and he is 25. We get into arguments everyday, over the smallest things, but it is stemming from this frustration on my part. I am so tired of trying everyday to "seduce" him, and being insulted in ways such as being accused of being a nympho. Should I just accept a sexless marriage and break down for a vibrator, or is it time to call it quits?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): do all what is best to make this problem solved and if didnt get a divorce,before having kids as a sexless marriage isnt worth living for
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): Well its abvious your not happy and for a young new married couple it doesnt sound right to me. marriage is about working on both sides, he deserves you and explanation, sit him down and explain that this is serious and if you both cant work it out then theres no hope for the marraige. A healthy relationship needs a balance of physical and emotional love.
If he wont compromise or is not willing to sort things out then it may be worth thinking about a future without him.
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