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Should I have faith in us even though he's with someone else?

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Question - (16 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *oojagirl writes:

I dated this guy who because of how we met I believe it was god leading us to each other, he 2 months ago, without telling me dumped me for someone else, even so there are signs that he still cares about me and misses me, my friends say I should just forget about him and I try to tell myself the same thing but I just cant, I get this deep down in my gut nagging feeling that even after 2 months is strong as ever that says "dont give up on him, u will be together again someday" even though he says he is happy with her, should I listen to my friends and forget about him or listen to my gut and have faith in us?

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A female reader, priyanka92 India +, writes (16 December 2010):

priyanka92 agony auntfrankly i was stuck in the same situation a year back and honestly, trust me the longer you deny thefact that he has dumped you and that he will never be back in your life..you will be inflicting yourself with unecessary pain and heartache..because you will keep thinking that "one day" he will be back with you but this "one day" will turn into one month and then a year.. see he has dumped you and if he really wanted to be with you he wouldnt have dumped you in the first place

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2010):

You seem to be a bit stuck in the denial stage. He was very callous towards you, and actually dumped you without saying anything to go for another woman. And in 2 months, nothing has changed. You don't need a callous man like that in your life. I think whilst it's very hard, you need to let go from him because he's just not worthy of your time in any way. And, I'm afraid I don't think he's interested either.

Find a better guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010):

They say that actions speak louder than words. I know it hurts when you want someone, but it sounds like wishful thinking on your part. You would be better to put your energies into getting over him and enjoying your life. There's someone else out there for you who will be better.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010):

~DENIAL~

Sweetie, sometimes it is easier to turn your back to the truth than it is to face it.

It is time you accept what you know is the truth.

Let go.

You need to be alert, because your special someone is going to catch you off guard and hug you from behind...and say...Peek a boo! I Love You!

God Bless.

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