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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy. He's a lot older then me we never talk face to face. He's a bus driver i see ever day why he goes by and when we talk on the phone he tells me he's married and has kids. But then i find out he's not married, nor does he have any kids. So i called him told him i found out he wasn't married and nor does he have kids. He was't home at the time i left a message on his answer machine. Even he when by he look so sad. Should i call him? Or should let it go? Now i feel bad. I told him if he didnt want me to call he should just told me.last we talk on the phone he had another women lie to me, said they were marry and i told him shouldn't done that will he ever call me or is over for good please help i dont what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 October 2014):
 Let it go ! If he even got another woman to pose as his wife to discourage you - he really wants to get you off his back. Either you were the one initiating the phone calls, and he did not know how to stop you graciously,... or he initiated them but then thought better of it. In which case, yes it is was bad of him not being honest about it. But the end result is the same, he wants to be left alone.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (12 October 2014):
He isn't interested in you and that's why he is telling you those lies. Kind of cowardly that he can't just say that to your face, but the bottom line is the same- he doesn't like you the way you like him. You should stop calling him.
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