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Should I have allowed him to do this? I felt pressured into doing it!

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Question - (13 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xx-mizzy-xxx writes:

hey guys right if u read my other question it will be about my realtionship wiv my boyfriend but if you haven`t read it,its about me and my boy friend being alone and he tryed to pull my skirt up and i slapped him coz of it and we argued about it. He called me someone i wasnt and i went to his huse and sed sorry and so did he then .He tryed to do it again but this time i let him and now i feel like i was pressed into it.

should i have done it or not ???? what should i do now??

help plzz

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A male reader, Mossberg500 United States +, writes (14 December 2010):

If he is really your boyfriend u should be comfortable with it

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (13 December 2010):

The Realist agony auntI did read and respond to your other question. Obviously there is part of you that wanted it to happen and part of you who didn't. My question to you is do you care about him and do you want to become sexual with him even though you two may not always be together? From my point of view you have done nothing wrong so there is no reason for you to feel bad about it. You are in the age range where sexual acts do become a huge reality and no one is wrong for exploring it.

Now you have to decide if you want it to continue and how far you want it to go. This should be determined and talked about a head of time so that you two don't end up fighting over it again.

You don't want to feel pressured here but also remember that exploring this with your bf is not wrong at all.

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