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writes:Ok, ive been looking into colleges as of late and i have found one im interested in. But, its in the states. My boyfriend and i have only been dating for half a year, but we are much more serious. We want a future with each other after school. My question is, Would you stay with the one you loved even when they are so far away? it would be for four years by the way. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): as harsh as it sounds: if you were to split up with him later on and you hadnt gona and taken the courses you want to take where you want to go and not then achieved the career you wanted, would you regret it? the horrible reality is that things don't always last regardless of age or who you are.
also, if you're meant to be you're meant to be and you can overcome things like that and stay in the relationship whilst going to the USA.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): well even i have the same problem.i live in india and i'm going to continue my studies(i.e my masters degree) here.But my boyfried is off to the USA.i can't even meet him fot the next 2 years :( but yes we aren't going to break up and we'll make it.atleast that's what i'm hoping for
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): Hey, well, I am going to be very crude here, but at this age you really dont know what to do, so the qustion you have to have in mind is; will you risk your future for someone who AT THE MOMENT is someone very special to you?college is a very important moment in your life, it will literally determine your job and your career. Therefore, i would bet on the college rather than my love done, cause again, six months really isnt enough as harsh as it sounds and he is this to you know, but what about in a year? in two months?and the idea of future is very securing, especially for girls, but dont get winded up on that. MUCH can change, you can change, he can change.. thinsg change. its pary of life. now, if the colleges in the USA re as good as the ones you ar elooking fo there, thn stay, if not. then go to th US. it will be much worth it,. trust me.
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