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Should I give them the green light to have sex?

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Question - (24 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My best friend told ne he wants to have sex with my mom. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mom thinks my friend is cute so I asked how she felt about it. I felt completely shocked when she said that she wants to have sex with him. She is 45 and he is of age. I just do not want them to get hurt. Should I give them the green light to have sex? I don’t want to deny my friend an opportunity to have sex. i'm 50-50 on it.

I know I don’t want to hear them or see them doing it. I am concerned if I let them have sex that it may not be a one time thing. Do you think if they had sex and it was good they would do it a lot more? Is there a way that I can ensure that it is a one time thing to give my friend an opportunity to have sex with my mum? I'm about 50% ok with them doing it, but I only want it to happen once.

What can I do if I give them the green light and they enjoy it and want a sexual relationship? What things should I consider? If they enjoy it will they continue?

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A female reader, FANTASSYGODDESS United States +, writes (23 January 2011):

FANTASSYGODDESS agony auntif you agree to this , i read your story on here . hi , yes it'll most likely turn into a regular thing . specially if there's already an attraction . be careful what you wish for , it may bite you in the bum later . and become a problem for you . or just let nature take it's course and allow two people to just be happy without your input. that way it's not weird .

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