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writes:im deliberating over sending my teacher a poem i have written about him? shall i just go ahead and give it him because i really really want him to know? i dont understand how this site works but please could someone give me advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits a poem to tell him how much i feel for him i would copy it into here but its has names so thats not allowed it says so i am 17 so will it matter if he reads it but we have a very close relationship and he tells me alot of stuff about him but i dont think he knows how i feel, as explained in the poem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): Is it a love poem? If it is, then it's best kept to yourself honey. I can understand that your feelings for him might be strong, but sending him the poem could end in a lot of embarrassment for the both of you! Besides, I'm sure you're fully aware that a relationship would be totally out of bounds and illegal. He could lose his job! But if it is a poem of thanks or something else, then sure, send it to him. I'm sure that would make his day, to know that his efforts have been worthwhile. But again, if it's love, then it's best kept secret!
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reader, shoequeen +, writes (3 May 2008):
 i know your feelings are really strong at the moment but believe me they will pass. in time you will realise the relationship can not develop and you may even start to like a boy at school. either way giving the poem to your teacher will only cause embarrassment for him and will lead to an awkwardness between you both. you really don't want that. especially if you still have classes with him. i advise you to fight every urge you have to give him the poem! it is better for both your sakes. when you are over it (and you will be sooner than you think) you will be so relieved that you didn't go though with it. i promise.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (3 May 2008):
 If it's a love poem, then it may save both you and him much embarrassment if you don't give it to him.
On the other hand if it's a poem about how well he teaches, then go right ahead.
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reader, DiovanLestat +, writes (3 May 2008):
 Send it to him, if it's a poem filled with thanks and congratulations for all the help he has given to you.But don't send it if you have romantic feelings towards your teacher. If he cares about you in the same way, he won't be able to do anything until you have left school.And if he dosen't have romantic feelings, or has a girlfriend or wife, he will feel sorry that you have strong feelings that he cannot return.Either way.... send a poem of thanks, and keep your romantic feelings to yourself.If it's meant to be then it will happen when your older. But if not, then not.
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reader, simplyjuliet +, writes (3 May 2008):
What is the situation between you and this teacher? That is rather important before going ahead and decided what to do.
However, i would say giving it to him is possible and maybe you should. But do answer my question beforehand! And also, how intimate is this poem? do you want to personally hand it to him?
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (3 May 2008):
 Well, if you really do want him to know, then give it to him, but it may cause your and your teacher embarresment, but do what your heart tells you =D
i hope this helps
good luck
tashax
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