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writes: my ex and i had been apart for 3 months and then here he comes (lets name him Will) and saying that he made a mistake and learned what he did wrong and asks me if i want to give it another go. and i still had feelings for Will. thing is our friend (lets name him James) has been pretty open that he likes me during those 3 months. at first i didnt feel the same way. but then i started feeling more and more for him. so im left in an awkward state, feeling like i had too much power and knowing that someones heart will end up broken. I asked friends for advice (but not taking it as what they said i would do) James is more of a joker and he can always make me laugh and ive always had a good time with him and i know that it would be such an easy effortless relationship since we've always gotten along.Will is more serious, i dont really know how to expain him but i feel like there are a lot of unresolved feelings and that maybe i should give it a try with him so that at least we both end on a better note and knowing that we both tried. is this a good idea?but i know that things could be so easy and fun with James.What do i do!??!?!?
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reader, Frenchflower  +, writes (31 July 2008):
Talk to Will, and tell him how you felt when the relationship ended, and that you are now developing feelings for James. I think you should make both guys wait a few weeks and spend a lot of time with them both as friends. Don't make any quick decisions that you might regret yet.
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reader, AnonymousBob +, writes (31 July 2008):
personally i would try again with WIll
the hardest choices in lifealways reap the best rewards
but it depends for what reason you broke up.
and if you are willing to try again, if you think things can be fixed.
thing is, if you go for james, if it'll break wills heart, you might not have another chance with him, and you know you both like each other, so it could work if you try.
ihe says he has learnt and changed, give him a chance to prove that to you. he deserves that. if he hasn't? talk about it with him. and if he can't - drop him.
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