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writes: hiya, i ave known and loved this boy for 2 years, we have kissed and flirted regulary, and we have even had small relationships. i found all this built up to 1 nite, when i gave in and slept with him. it was my first time and it hurt so so much. we are both 18 and lets just say it was weird after, but i suppose i thought more would come out of what happened. but my friends seem to be rite that was all he wanted and now i did give in he seems to be giving me the push away..........what shall i do im hurting, but i also want him more than ever. do i have to get over it, or change to be more like he wants me to be. i have sed 2 friends i would sleep with him again, coz i dnt wanns push away any chance of love! please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): Never change for someone like this. He obviously finds things awkward between you because of both your inexperiences. He is young and is growing up himself. Unfortunatly this is just a lesson that you need to learn. Move on. Act friendly but not flirty around him but most of all don't show him you are hurting. Just carry on with the healing process and you will find someone new, and in time, he is going to realise what he has done to you and regret it, but by then you will be so far past it that you wont give a crap about him. I know it's the same old and its really hard to do, but you have to move on. Do not hang around for him, because girls should not have to chase men. We are all worth more than that! Wait for someone amazing to come to you! They will! :)
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