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writes:I don't know if I like this guy. He's one of my closest friends and I used to be completely in love with him. He's the last guy I was with, which was about 7 months ago, when I say with, I don't mean in a relationship, more of an FWB situation and I kind of think he might have taken advantage of me. I have much evidence to believe this, but he claims that he didn't know how I felt about him and how he wants to be friends with me forever, he said all of this in the nicest apology ever and so I'm willing to let what happened between us slide.ANYWAY, I don't know if I'm actually interested in him again or if I just miss being with someone, but I'd like some advice. I was wondering if I should flirt with him and see if h could actually fancy me- this is something which I'm a little tentative about because I figured, if he didn't like me before, what has changed that would make him like me now? - OR should I just try and seduce him and have a one time thing.What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): why are you even bothering with this guy when there are so many out there? when I liked someone I never treated him as anything special, ignored him, always looked gorgeous and flirted with other men. It always worked because men always want what other men have and when you're young...you get to pick whomever you want.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 I think you were on the money when you said:
"if he didn't like me before, what has changed that would make him like me now?"
And I'd use that logic when thinking from the other side of the fence, ie:
"if I fell for him once, what has changed that would make me not fall for him again."
Its entirely up to you, but kinda seems like it'll just be a deja vu experience... except this time you could lose him as a friend for real.
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