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writes: i'm 18 and i'm seing a guy who JUST turned 18 today. He's still a virgin but i've already had 3 partners and done other things with other guys. He doesn't know much about sex and I feel so awekard because my last boyfriend has been with 7 other girls before me and he knew what he was doing when he was with me, but this guy is very inexperience. I can just tell by the way he rubs my waiste when we make out. I'm not sure if I wanna be his first one, cuz the first one always is very important in someone's life. I'm not even sure i'm really into him, I just wanna fool around until I find someone I really like. Should I stop seing him???
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (28 October 2006):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh my gosh, last night was a disaster!!!!! When we were hooking up he was sooooo nervous!!!! He told me he has never touch a girl down there with her panties off!!!! Then he's also never fingered any girl so he told me he had NO clue what to do, hahaha. Then I gave him his first blow job. I think he liked it. Well, he makes me so frustrated cuz he's so unexperience. I don't know if this is gonna work out.
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 October 2006):
 If your not really into him then you shouldn't really be the one to take his virginity, I don't know about anyone else but I still think someone virginity is a special thing and should be taken in a loving relationship something shared together.
You've already admitted to just wanting to fool around with him until someone you really like comes along is this fair on him?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 In my opinion you shouldn't be having sex with someone you're 'not really into'. So, especially given your other reservations, splitting up with him is a good idea.
However, don't say you are doing it because he is a virgin. That would be an unkind thing to say. Just say that you are not really that into him.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 By all means, dump him. You'd be doing him a favor. You don't want him to fall in love with you, because you're too shallow anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006): No you shouldn't!!! This is exactly the kind of question that makes many insecure about being virgins and dumping this guy is only going to make him feel even worse about still being a virgin.
You should talk to him about what you want out of the relationship and what your concerns are if you go ahead and have sex. Then he can make an informed decision about his first time. Plus, from what you write, he hasn't said he's a virgin your just making assumptions. This is a classic example of lack of communication ruining a relationship! Also, if you don't like the way he rubs your back - tell him how to do it the way you like.
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