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writes:i'm a 16 year old girl and my boyfriend is 16 as well. we've been together for 3 months and we're not sexually active..yet.. he kissed another girl 2 weeks ago and he told me about it right away, feeling guilty ..apparently..(sure..) i forgave him. cause i really like him. but it seems like all he wants to do is have sex. when he can't "get any" from me, he goes and cheats and i'm 100 percent sure he's cheated more times. my friends say that he flirts behind my back and that he's using me ..and that i'm "easy." I asked him and he denies it. Why would he think that if he says nice things about me? So I don't even know who to trust on this. I COULD dump him...but then I'd feel HORRIBLE and my confidence would go down. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Welli'd say dump him cuz if your friends says that he does then it's very likely to be true.You even said " i'm 100 percent sure he's cheated more times" then that mean your gut feeling and your heart is telling you that he did.I were you i just dump him cuz he's doing nothing but hurt you just dump him move on and find someone who really likes you.But if your unsure of this advice ask ppl or friends that to see if he does flirt or cheat on you with other girls then catch him in the act brake up then move on.
i hop i helped in any way best of luck to you and i hope to that you find Mr.Right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): If it was just the once, I'd say forgive and try again because every person is entitled to a second chance.
But from your words it appears he has had more than enough chances.
It is time to get rid of this leech and find someone who isn't going to play around with your feelings.
Flynn 24
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  + ♥, writes (3 April 2008):
 If he's cheated on you, then who's to say that he won't cheat again. Why would your confidence go down because you lost a guy? You're fine without a boyfriend. Some people have been single for years. They manage fine. Would you rather be cheated on and made to look like an idiot or feel lousy for a few days and then find someone who appreciates you?Wishing you the bestxx
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