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writes:(Modf Note - Op's own title)I met this guy online while playing poker. Then he traveled from another country to come see me and take me on a vacation. We spent a week of vacation together. We made out two times but didn't have any sex. After the trip we talked it over. Then, I think I am starting to have feelings for him. Thus, he said he's not ready for committment yet. He's still going through divorce. So, I made it clear to him then we should just be friend and no intimacy. He agreed to just being friend. He did said he has feelings for me. Should I continue being his friend? Thus, he seems to be a nice person I don't want to loose a friend. Is he lying that he said he has feelings for me too, but didn't go further 'coz he knows he still had unfinished business to take care of? Should I disconnect the friendship or should I play smart and act strong or should I move on and forget what had happened or should I wait for him?
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reader, tiger27  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Hiya
If I were in your situation I would stick to what you both agreed and get to know him more then see how you both feel once his divorce has come through.
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