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Should I date him even though I don't want to be seen in public with him?

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Question - (23 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

OK.. last year my best friends always used to try to make me hook up with this guy and they didn't tell me if he was cute or not so he just came up to me or whatever and i didn't think he was that attractive so i just pushed him to the side and walked off(i know it was rude!)

but anyway i have started talking to the same guy and he is so perfect but i still don't think he is that attractive and he constantly asks me out and i really want to say yes but i don't want to be seen in public with him..

what should i do?

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A female reader, Alix146 Australia +, writes (23 April 2010):

Go out with him! who cares if hes not that attractive if he has a great personality take him!take the opportunity it would be silly not to

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2010):

Don't date him. If you don't want to be see with him, don't date him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010):

If you love him you look past it. If he is truely the most amazing perfect guy, you will love him for WHO he is not WHAT he is. If you can't look past it then its just not meant to be.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (23 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntSimple - don't date him if you are so concerned about others opinions as to not want to be seen with him. That would not be fair to him.

If tho you want to be more mature and value him for his qualities rather than appearance, then date him and tell any of your friends who make negative remarks that they are rude, immature, shallow, and out of line, ... and you would rather a great guy than a good looking a-hole.

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