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*ellMeAnything
writes:I have been with my husband for 5years now. Married for less than one year. I have allowed my husband to have a threesome..should I allow him to continue to be sexual with other women?
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (10 March 2010):
 I don't think you should be asking total strangers this type of question. This is something that you have to search your heart for. Can you deal with it? Do you want to deal with it? We don't know what your marriage is like, or what you or your husband are like. I think you should be talking to your husband not us.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Well... are you comfortable with it? Do you like it? If you do, then there's no harm because technically no one is getting hurt.
But if you are uncomfortable then of course this behaviour should cease. Go with your gut feeling.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 There is nothing saying that you two can not have an open marriage but there has to be alot of trust between you two if you want it to work. You both have to be completely honest with all activities and make sure that the other person does not get jealous. This all depends on how you two are together, if it works then why don't you have some guy flings too. If he doesn't want you to and still goes for other women then it won't work out. Some more info would be helpful.
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reader, xXPoisonXx +, writes (10 March 2010):
Threesomes are one thing: they are something exciting that allow both of you to enjoy anothers company. it is something you do Together, and is a relationship experience.
Threesomes are a completely different thing from him just having sexual experiences with other women. but ultimately, its up to what you are comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): what are your feelings? Is he willing to stop? Is it in your power to stop it even if you wanted to. There isnt enough information here. Mal
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