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writes:Alrite, i know that i tend to use this site alot but i am a very confused teen (15). I just wanted to say thank-you to everyone who is takin their time to read this and attempt to help me out.Alrite, this is the him or her question.First of all, i am bisexual, yet i tend to be alot more attracted to females, and have been since i was about 13. I am a virgin with both sexes although the though of having sex with a girl turns me on ALOT more than with a guy.Ok, well their are these 2 people that i like and i mean i like them both alot. I would do almost anything for either of them although neither of them know that i like them but think it is like a crush. They are both bi also. For the girl, i was the first girl she kissed...ever but i know that they both have the same feelings towards me, but i have no idea which to choose. See, neither would be okay with me dating them both and i understand this but i am not the kind of person to cheat...under any curcumstance. So i don't want to go out with one of them just to turn around and break up with him/her to go out with the other. So, i need help on who to choose, they both are my really good friends and both are attracted to me in an emotional way and in a physical way and i to them. So, help please.Ok, i realise this one was kinda long and am sorry but thanks for reading.angel
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (6 December 2007):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeh well after me and the guy i had been talklin about, me and him hung out for bit liek an hr or two and we ended up talkin about how i feel about him, n i told him i loved him but that i wasn't exactly sure howmcuh and if i was IN love with him. but he asked me, if he asked me out if it would b a yes...n i told him yeh, it would be. but i talked to him about letting me havea g/f while we dated n he said he would b ok with it...but it depended who she was. n that he didn't want for her to b one of his close friends which i understand. now all i gotta do is talk to the girl about it.
thnx everyone for ur seggestions(sp?) n the opinions. i appreciate it.
XOXO Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): Wow - thats difficult, but you will have to come to a decision sooner or later about this - and it is a decision that only you will be able to make. Only you can decide for yourself what you really want...
Seeing as you are still confused about your feelings why don't you wait for a bit and see what happens in the future. You don't want to make any hasty decisions...
...Or another thing to do is just to stay friends with both of them and change nothing. You are only young after all and don't need to be dating anyone yet. Maybe this is best if you want to remain really good friends with both of them???
Whatever you choose to do, good luck.
Take life as it comes. x x x
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reader, -Colour-Me-Sober-  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 I always say that if you can't make up your mind don't pick at all.
This way you wont be hurting your friends by only choosing one of them.
Good Luck =]
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Well sweetie, seems like your in a wreck. Since you cant seem to make up your mind, my advice is to just leave things how they are for now until you get your head straight. I cant tell you who to choose because i dont know either of them and it seems to me that you really like them both equally. All i can say is that since you dont want to end up making a mistake and hurting peoples feelings ( your own as well), maybe this isnt the right time for you to be in a relationship. Leave things how they are. No relationship, no confusion. Stay on your own for a while until you seem to have everything under control.
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