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36-40,
anonymous
writes:About 7 months ago me and my ex broke up, at first we still hung out and were friends but after about 3 months she found someone else. I was very upset and after an emotional conversation we decided that we should give each other some space.she suggested that i give her a call in a week when she had time to think.I never called.. . I decided i should give it some real time and reflect back on myself and our 3yr relationship I have since dated other girls, moved to a bigger place, made new friends and changed for the better.Other girls have taken notice of this and I have received compliments from people that know my ex.Telling me that I am the person she always wanted me to be and evidently replaced.Recently though i can not get her out of my head, I love her a lot but I respect her so I don't want to be the reason for her having problems with her new person.I want to call her and get her back really bad, but i can not bring myself to doing so.She still has all my stuff and has never made efforts on returning it and still has all of our pictures from all of our trips on her profile.Should I call her? how can i get her back with out compromising and hurting other people?
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reader, countrygirlWV  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 I think just take the plung and call her be friendly and just talk alittle as just an old friend then see how she is acting if she seems to b intrested in talking about a relationship again then tell her how u feel and stuff. If she seems to have moved on don't let it bother u just b happy for her and stay friends I think that would b the best way to go in my opinion u never know what could happen. Good luck. And hope I could help!!!!!
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