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writes: i am currently in a relation with a married man. they are living in two different countries and have been separated for the past 3 to 4 years. he says they are no longer in love with each other. just recently the wife came to visit with their two children for a week. he said they were not sleeping together but when i went to his house after they had left, i accidentaly saw in the wardrobes her clothes and shoes, why is he still keeping her thing hanging in there when he says they are not together and haven't been for the past years. i don't know if he is being honst with me. should i believe him that they are really separated? he has also said that he loves me?
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 It sounds awfully odd that someone who is separated from his wife for so long would still keep her clothes on hand, unless of course, he is a cross dresser.
I'd say he was pulling the wool over your eyes, with no pun intended. Tell him that you happened to notice the clothing and ask him "What's the dealio?"
Ask and ye shall receive.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Have you asked him?
Maybe you are hesitant in case he thinks you are 'snooping'? In that case try going out to a restaurant or somewhere dressy from his place, and ask if you can hang the dress up in the wardrobe - "so that it does'nt get creased"; go to get a hanger and...??
It may well be that as she is abroad, she has left all the clothes she does'nt need in the climate over there, or perhaps she does'nt want them - maybe they don't fit her now!
You won't know for sure, but if he loves you, then you should'nt have anything to worry about.
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